Today I am discussing the very complex part of the human relationship.May be not the most complex part but very complex. Somebody who is always saying you,
“I am right you are wrong”
and you know that person neither has experience nor intellectual capability to decide this.
You all might have faced this problem some day or other in your personal as well as professional life.So how to solve this problem .The answer comes with question.
Do you want to fix this problem temporarily or permanently?
Sometimes temporarily because your are in politically charged environment and you may not want to rectify this problem so that it doesn’t kick you out of your base.It’s OK.
And if you want to fix this problem permanently then you have to tell them today.Although I have come to conclusion that there is no permanent solution of problems in human relationship because of environmental, emotional, professional biological changes happening with the course of time, even then it’s better to find long term solutions of the problems.But.. be very careful because you may not know the exact cause of the problem and the surrounding factors causing that problem.Surrounding factors like the upbringing of the person or the social conditions in which he or she is living today.
Try to understand both or may be many causes then act but act .The most dangerous thing is not to act but even more dangerous is acting when you don’t have that maturity or enough data to deal with .In either cases you should be in your control.I know it’s difficult but this is the only way.Raise your concern to that person take few people in loop whom you think will not make situation more pathetic for their own benefit.Raise your concern to that person without delaying it for too long.You may have to raise it many times .You may have to little bit compromise with position but its OK.If you dont compromise today you will loose that person permanently and or loose the position or ultimate goal forever.
Many times even medicine become the poison if it’s not given in proper doses .So be careful .Giving medicine is unavoidable but giving in proper doses is also important.
